James Uche
Veteran Nigerian music icon, Innocent ‘2Baba’ Idibia, has once again sparked widespread public conversation following a candid revelation about male sexuality and his personal reflections on love, relationships, and marriage.
Speaking on the latest episode of the 234 Mzansi podcast, hosted by media personality Ani Emmanuel, popularly known as Nedu Wazobia, the 49-year-old singer shared deeply personal insights that touched on biology, fidelity, and emotional realities in relationships.
“I’ve said this before, and I got into trouble for it, but I don’t mind repeating it: man was not built to be sexually with just one woman,” 2Baba stated unapologetically.
According to the multi-award-winning artist, a man can truly love, respect, and be emotionally devoted to a woman, but maintaining sexual exclusivity is a challenge rooted in male biology.
“A man can genuinely love a woman completely but still find it difficult to be with only her sexually,” he said. “It’s not about lack of love; it’s about nature. Some men make different choices, but I’m speaking from a biological perspective.”
While acknowledging the potential controversy of his views, 2Baba encouraged open and honest discussions in relationships, especially when love begins to fade or challenges arise.
2Baba also addressed public curiosity surrounding his past relationship with Nollywood actress Annie Idibia, affirming that their separation was mutual and amicable.
“Annie and I had a beautiful bond. She’s an amazing and wonderful person. We gave it our best. It just wasn’t working anymore,” he said.
He emphasized that while the relationship did not work out, the respect and admiration between them remain intact. He cautioned couples not to stay trapped in broken marriages simply because of societal expectations.
“If a marriage is not working, couples should do their best to fix it. But if it still doesn’t work, no one should be forced to stay. Society doesn’t live inside the marriage—you do.”
2Baba described the phenomenon of remaining in unhappy marriages due to public opinion as “living in bondage,” warning that many people have lived and died in emotional chains out of fear of judgment.
“Many couples are struggling but stay together because they are afraid of what society will say,” he observed.
The legendary singer also took a moment to celebrate the women who have been part of his life, including the mothers of his children.
“The mothers of my children are all amazing people. Annie is amazing. The person I’m with now is also amazing. Everyone has their own beauty, strength, and uniqueness,” he noted.
2Baba revealed that his current partner, Natasha Osawaru, was chosen not for physical appearance but for her character and the sense of emotional peace she brings.
“My relationship is based on emotional safety, not looks. People often create drama where there is none,” he added.
Wrapping up the conversation, 2Baba urged people to be real about their struggles and not pretend to live perfect lives under the pressure of societal standards.
“Couples need to be honest about what they’re facing. There’s nothing wrong with trying to fix things, but there’s also no shame in walking away if it’s not working. We owe it to ourselves to be happy.”
With his characteristic honesty and introspection, 2Baba has once again sparked a critical conversation—one that invites reflection on love, fidelity, freedom, and the sometimes uncomfortable truths about human nature.
